God has been reminding me throughout the week to look for
my identity in Him. I don’t think I’d forgotten, but good or bad,
it’s easy to get caught up in what’s going on around me. And the enemy will use
anything—Any. Little. Thing.—to distract, discourage, or cloud my vision.
So, at the end of a frustrating day, He reminded me that it
doesn’t matter what someone else thinks or says. The actions of others are not
a reflection on me.
The following morning, I thought about how my identity in
Him is unique. One of a kind.
And then after a really good day, I was reminded again that
who I am is not dependent on what happens to me or around me.
Who I am is found in
Whose I am.
Acknowledge
that the Lord is God! He made us, and we are his.
My past, present, and
future outlook help shape me and make me who I am, but it does not name me. It
makes an impact and challenges me, but it does not define me.
My
identity, and yours too, is Child of God.
Chosen. Beloved. And Redeemed.
It doesn’t matter what someone else thinks or says about us.
It only matters what God says.
We are not defined by our own success or failure, nor by
someone else’s.
Our identities are not determined by our age or personal
stories.
God knows who we are because He created each of
us—individually, in His image. He knows the plans He has for us, and they are
not dependent on how well we can emulate someone else.
In fact, when we strive out of competition to be just
like another, we step away from the plans He has for us. {Tweet this}
God didn’t design us to be copycats. He gave each of us
different personalities, interests, and strengths and weaknesses. He knows
where we’ve been and where we’re going. He knows what we’re capable of doing
and where we fall short.
When we compare ourselves to someone else, we lose sight of
how special God made us. We focus on what we don’t have instead of what we do
have. We worry that we can’t be like her or accomplish what she can. But God never asked us to be just like
someone else.
Afterward:
I’m
currently reading The Story of With by Allen Arnold. After I wrote the rough draft of this post yesterday morning,
I sat down to read in the afternoon. Little did I know the chapter I was about
to begin was about identity, reinforcing the very thoughts I’d written about
earlier in the day. It was one of those moments that makes your mouth hang open
as you realize this was no coincidence.
When God wants to make a point, He will
get our attention. Like
He did for me this past week.
Throughout the good, the bad, and the
ordinary, our identities are found in Him. They cannot be earned or taken away. {Tweet this}
Past
actions, regrets, and old wounds are all part of our personal stories, but they
don’t define us because God can redeem
anything and everything.
Accomplishments
and celebrations also make up our stories, but again, we are not defined by
them. When the excitement wears off, our
identities are solid in the One who created us, not dependent on the next goal
we strive for.
I
don’t know what you might be struggling with today, but would you take a moment
to spend with our Creator? Maybe it’s a quick prayer. Or a simple question: What do You want me to hear from You today?
Try personalizing Psalm 100:3 (or another verse that speaks to you).
I acknowledge that the Lord is God! He made me, and I
am His.
When you think of your own identity,
what comes to mind? Do you find yourself striving to be like someone else? Or
trying to earn your identity through what you do? What would life look like if
you rested in Him and who He created you to be?
In Christ,
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I love how you say our identity is not determined by our age or stories! So true! Such a good reminder!
ReplyDeleteAmen! I am doing a Bible study of the beautiful words that God uses to describe us and these are some of them. I so need these and all of them because I forget so very easily. I do not need to be 'enough' because God is more than enough...I am blessed...I am forgiven and loved and ...so much more! Thanks, Laura.
ReplyDelete"Our identities are not determined by our age or personal stories." This is definitely a news flash in our culture. It certainly seems like people react to us differently depending on age, and other outward appearances. But really, as you said, our identity does not depend on what others think but on what God says. What others think changes like the weather, but God never changes! What a relief!
ReplyDeleteThis is a lesson we could review everyday. We always need to remember that our identities are found in Him! Thank you for this reminder. I may check into that book you mentioned. Linking up today over at Purposeful faith. Blessings to you!
ReplyDeleteThis topic of identity has been on my heart this past week, this was perfect timing! Thank you for sharing!!
ReplyDeleteMy family and I are reading Tim Tebow's book, "Shaken", and your post just really goes along with what he is saying in the book. It is so hard to remember that our true identity rests in Him, especially in times of failure and defeat. I am so grateful to you for sharing this. You are a blessing!
ReplyDeleteThank you Cheryl. I may have to check out the book you mention.
DeleteI've given in to the temptation to be a "copycat" as you've put it, Laura, more times than I'd like to admit. And like you've said, it always ends up eroding my view and certainty of my identity in Christ. Powerful post, my friend! I'll be sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you Beth!
DeleteI need to hear every single day that there's nothing outside of God's ability to use -- and that nothing is ever wasted! Thanks for giving it to me today, Laura!
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