I'm excited to be linking up Pray for Acceptance for the March 2012 Write It, Girl: Round 2! Part Two—Pray for Strength next week.
Pray that you would accept the situation.
I recently heard these words in a sermon and I haven’t been able
to stop thinking about them. Pray that I would accept the situation? Doesn’t
whether or not I want to accept the situation depend on the situation? For example, a good
health report, a new job or the promotion I wanted, a secure and happy
marriage—those are acceptable situations. But cancer, loss of a job, divorce,
death of a loved one—those situations are harder to accept. I don’t want to accept them.
I decided to look up the definition of the word accept.
accept – to take or receive, to receive with approval, to tolerate
or accommodate oneself to. (Dictionary.com)
accept – to receive willingly (NLT Study Bible, Tyndale)
I don’t know if I can willingly accept something I don’t want or
something I know will be painful or final. On second thought, I know I can’t.
Not on my own. I need God’s help.
When Jesus prayed in the Garden of
Gethsemane,
He asked God if there was another way…
“‘Abba, Father,’ he cried out, “everything is possible for you.
Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be
done, not mine.’” (Mark 14:36 NLT)
“Then Jesus left them a second time and prayed, ‘My Father! If
this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will be done.’” (Matt. 26:42 NLT)
Each time, Jesus expressed His feelings to God, but God’s will was
of most importance to Him. Jesus accepted the situation and did what He had to
do.
God will always listen to us. He wants us to express our fears,
disappointments, and confusion. Sometimes He will change our circumstances, and
sometimes, He will change us instead.
Accepting a situation doesn’t mean pretending I’m happy about it,
but maybe it frees me from the anger, hurt, and resentment I feel. Especially
if I’m feeling this way towards God, accepting it allows me to move on with
what I have to do. Accepting it enables me to receive God’s guidance and His
help in getting through the situation.
In Christ,
Laura