We live in a negative world. Maybe it’s always been this way,
but seems worse because of social media. I don’t really know. But closer to
home, I look back and see that I’ve always been surrounded by negative people.
I didn’t know any different as I was growing up, but as an adult I can see it
now.
Remember Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh? He was always
expecting and waiting for the worst. He’s cute in the stories, but I don’t
think I could hang out with him for long periods of time. And then I realized…I
do have Eeyores in my life. I always have. Maybe you do too.
I think I might have even been Eeyore-like. After all, it’s
how I grew up. So, when I encountered negative people, their behavior didn’t
seem that out of line. Then, over the years, as I started to really see God’s
work in my life, I also began to see everyday life differently. I know bad
things happen, but waiting for them seemed pointless. Worrying about what might
happen tomorrow means I either worry for no reason when it doesn’t happen, or
I’ve spent extra time worrying before it was necessary.
Worry for tomorrow
takes away from today.
But, let’s face it, we will spend time with people who spend
most of their time worrying. So, what can we do when we feel like we’re
surrounded by negativity and encounter Eeyores on a regular basis?
Please join me at Candidly Christian where I'm sharing some things I do to keep from following others down a pessimistic
road. Perhaps you’ll find them helpful as well!
In Christ,
Laura
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